Tuesday 26 July 2011

♥ I Don't Understand !

The day I ever remember, 5 months, it was around 5 months. You notice that ? WRONG !! If you know, how could you do that ? How could ? Big sigh* I was hyper in the morning, yes, I admit I did it okay ? LOL :D



You should know yourself very well, if you don't know, early in the morning, use mirror look yourself clearly. Till you know yourself ! Someone told me,today*


Your lovely, Siokying

Saturday 23 July 2011

♥ 那些年的我,未来的我

今天就来华语来更新吧,我已经好久好久都没写华文了,正确的说是在毕业过后, 再也没有用了。一转眼,今天已经是七月二十三日,是妈妈去香港的第二天,而我呢?三个月又零六天,有何感想?事实上,真的是有太多的触感了,想要表达的不至于这些,或许觉得我所说的都很小孩子气,但也不完全错啊,我原本就是一位未满18岁的小女孩!就让这些时间让我慢慢的成长吧 :)



我会试着成长,勇敢面对挑战,但决不逃避



距离二月到至今,有多久了?让我来算算看吧。。。第一百四十七天,天数,我从未算过,今天是第一次,会不会也是最后呢?不管怎样都好,我们都停留在那个界限外,而且是距离得越来越远,我想争取的,想把握的一切,不是我一个人的能力就能完成。那是需要人与人之间的力量去造化。我自己开心,让他人幸福,不管未来的方向在那里,希望你们开心。大家就把这句话永恒的记在心里吧。有时候放下真的不较好过,把心胸的大门打开,让所爱你的人都感受到。
不瞒的说,开导人固然容易,一旦发生在自己身上,往往都被事实所掩盖,旁观者清,这是对的,永远只有旁人能冷静的去判断+思考。


或许人就是那么的矛盾?


还有的就是,永远永远不要随便开口对别人承诺你从不能做到的事,不管男女都好。互相尊敬是基本礼貌。昨天在Facebook和Kura聊天时,我说:我明白等待一个人的痛苦,但我从不了解及明白一个人在谈恋爱中甜蜜的滋味。哈哈,现在想起,我怎么会这样说?太老实还是太悲观啊?(傻笑)









Lavender上

♥ 8 Signs He's Totally Into You

Unfortunately, after a first date, it's rarely as simple as: "I like you, I had fun, let's get together again."

I'm coy after a first date because:

I don't want to look too eager / desperate. I won't ignore my attraction, but I'll at least try to temper it.

I want to look like I have a life. Even though I don't have a life, I might try to look a little aloof.

I'm not sure if you like me. It's scary to take the dive and show I'm interested when I'm not sure if the girl is interested.

Despite attempts to look calm, cool, and collected, there are a number a things I'll do around an initial date that clue you in that I'm interested. Here are a few:

Completing the Date

It may not indicate that you're the apple of my eye, but it does indicate that you're not a total disaster. Most people are courteous enough to do the absolute minimum on a date : finish whatever activity you're doing together and devote sufficient time out of respect for the other person. But some situations are such utter disaster, things must be cut short.

I once went out with a girl who spewed embarrassingly stupid things I couldn't respond to. Finally, I suggested changing plans to meet up with my buddies. Once a date is officially a bust, I'll look for any way out.

One on One

If I'm into you, and comfortable, I won't want to "share" you. A common tactic to combat a boring date is calling in "reinforcement" friends to "dilute" you. I'm naturally talkative with those around me, but if I invite everyone else around us into our party, I might be looking for a more interesting outlet.

Extending the Date

Suggesting something (other than going back to someone's place) after dinner like taking a walk, grabbing a drink, going for dessert, catching a movie, etc... Indicates I'm asking for an encore. Although a masochist like myself might ask a girl to spend more time with me if I'm not enjoying her company.

Suggesting Another Date

Sometimes I get so excited during a first date I play my cards by suggesting other things we should do together. A common time to suggest another date is at the end of the date, though some guys just say this to be friendly. But it can't be bad if the guy is enthusiastic enough to suggest a second date. He just has to make good on his word.

Friendly Follow-Up Right After You Say Good-bye

Sometimes after a date, I'll text the girl telling her I had a great time, out of sheer giddiness. If I'm not interested after the date, I'll head straight home and begin my process of fading out of this girl's life (following up is not part of that process).

Striking While the Iron's Hot

I'll appear to be flaky or uninterested if I wait too long. If I enjoyed the date I'll contact her within a few days. This doesn't necessarily mean I'm asking her out again just yet. I'm just keeping the conversation going. If I'm not interested, I won't ever contact her again. Regardless of how great you thought things went, if he doesn't contact you again he's clearly not interested.

Consistency

Hold me to a higher standard than one extra date, or one call back after the initial date. How many times have you gone on a few dates only to have it fizzle out? You can't be sure I'm interested until we've gone out consistently for more than a month.

Non-Cliché Dates/Spontaneity

Take notice when I ask you to do random little things : run errands, go to the park. It's that next step when I'm getting to know you and showing you I want you around whenever, wherever. Spending this "informal" time with you indicates I'm interested.

Remember, guys sometimes act interested just to get laid, and there are guys who feel guilty cutting a date short when it's not going well. "Trying to be nice" actually sends the wrong signals if a guy is not interested.

My advice: Use these indicators as guidelines ( They usually build on each other as things progress ) Be vigilant, because reading the signals incorrectly will get you hurt. Hopefully you'll meet a good guy who is sending honest signals.

How do you show you're interested after a first date? Do you wait for a guy to make the next move after a first date? What signals are you looking for in guys after a first date? Do you agree with my signals, and that it's tough to read them in the beginning ?

Friday 15 July 2011

♥ I'm Queen

Wow, it's medium of July, time flies, sorry that I disappeared for so long
Apologize to you guys ! Recently stay at my new sweet home ♥
*Imma busy home moving
Too bad don't have internet can update my status & blog, argghh :(


Well, I gotta pack my things now, see ya ! Lavender

Friday 1 July 2011

♥ Dear July

Dear July, be awesome ♥
Can't believe its already July, time flies ! I just wanna be with you on july, seem like miracle wouldn't happen.. Times not allow us in love !! I do love my job, trying everyday smile with problems :D Crying isn't show you weakness, its something that you keep for too long :'(







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♥ Give Me Everything Tonight !

WOW.. Seriously love friday nowadays ! Except I've to work on satutday, that's sucks :( Can't even sleep till noon, which mean NO lying my bed till I willing to woke up. Plus, its only friday that I'm free. Others day, I was tired like hell. Let's talk my main topic today, last saturday (250611) Sengchun's organized house party & organized small gathering too. Awesome night with you guys ♥♥



2 years !!! 2 years we belongs together

I was drank !?

Nice angle ever, 2 silly guys doing what huh ?
Thanks TK :D


Speechless with their extremely sohai action. HAHA

5 years friendship & 6 years friendship. What's the different ?


:P -__-






A hug is worth a thousand words. A friend is worth more


Your friend, Lavender